Hey there, lovely readers!
Lover Girl here, and today I want to dive deep into what it means to love hard. If you’ve been curious to know why I'm calling myself Lover Girl, then you should know first, that love is everything to me. Not only does the air fill with love, and the candy aisles with pink and red hearts when its my "birthday season", but love is genuinely at the core of who I am. **February 6th, Aquarius-are you surprised??**
I call myself Lover Girl because I believe in the power of love, and I embrace it fully in every aspect of my life. You can say I was lucky, growing up with a loving family AND in a two parent household. My parents, my aunties and uncles, grandmas and grandpas, all have or had 30 plus year relationships. With love comes the passion, the tough love, the pointless fights, the faith, and the growth. Growing up around it, I guess I got a good vision of what a raw and organic relationship looks like. Not only found in the pillars of the strong marriages but also in the unwavering bonds with my cousins. My family was built with love as the foundation. My cousins are not just my cousins, they're some of the best friends I may ever have. I guess it's safe to say developing that understanding of love at a young age is the reason why when I love, I love HARD.
With time and hurt I've learned loving hard can be both a blessing and a challenge. On the one hand, it means experiencing the world with an open heart. It allows us to form deep and meaningful connections with others, to feel joy and happiness in the purest forms. When we love hard, we give our all, and that can create beautiful, lasting bonds.
However, loving hard also comes with its own set of difficulties. It can make us vulnerable to heartache and disappointment. When we invest so much of ourselves in others, the pain of betrayal or loss can be overwhelming. But despite these challenges, I believe that loving hard is a core part of who I am, and it’s something I wouldn’t change for the world.
So, I leave you with these questions, my lovely readers:
*How do you handle the ups and downs that come with loving hard?
*Do you think the rewards of loving hard outweigh the risks?
Let’s share our stories and support each other in this journey of love.
Remember, loving hard is not just about the romantic kind of love; it’s about loving friends, family, and even ourselves with the same intensity and burning passion!
Until next time, keep loving hard and stay true to yourself.
With love,
Lover Girl
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