Hello lovely readers and beautiful souls!
Today, I want to share some thoughts on the importance of wanting to change for the better, but also about not being too hard on yourself in the process.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been making some personal changes for myself. Whether it’s adopting healthier habits, setting new goals, or just trying to become a better version of myself, let me tell you it’s been a challenging journey. There have been moments of doubt and frustration, but I’ve come to realize that being too hard on myself only makes things more difficult.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is the importance of self-compassion. It’s so easy to get caught up in the idea of perfection and to be overly critical when things don’t go as planned. But the truth is, change takes time, and setbacks are a natural part of the process. Instead of beating myself up over mistakes, I’ve started to view them as opportunities for growth. This shift in mindset has made a huge difference in how I approach my goals.
I’m also learning to celebrate the small victories. Every step forward, no matter how small, is progress. By acknowledging these achievements, I’m able to stay motivated and keep pushing forward. It’s all about finding that balance between striving for improvement and being kind to myself along the way.
I feel todays topic circles back to my earlier blog about self discovery. Change is existential in self discovery because it forces us to confront our true selves and our deepest desires. When we embrace change, we step out of our comfort zones and challenge the status quo, which leads to personal growth and a deeper understanding of who we are. This process often involves shedding old habits, beliefs, and relationships that no longer serve us, making room for new experiences and perspectives. Evolution—the literal shaping and molding of who we are.
So, my lovely readers, here’s to embracing change with a positive and compassionate attitude, and to the exciting journey of self improvement and self discovery that lies ahead. We’re all in this together, and every step forward is a step in the right direction. Let’s be there for one another.
I also want to take a moment to just say thank you to my friends, family, wife, and readers for being a big part of my life and my journey. From the bottom of my heart, thanks for being here with unwavering support. I love you all.
Until next time,
Lover Girl
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Love it bubs! You’re such an amazing writer & so glad you’re doing this! You have the best insight & advice always. Love you baby!
Doing this blog is a nostalgic feeling to us being younger. The daily gains are happening for you my friend. So proud of your journey. Keep doing what you do! It is important we take the time to better ourselves, and yours is with writing ✍️ slay girl. I’ll keep on reading.
Change is good new doors open💜😘
I haven't read all the blogs but this one is definitely good. A must read ! This is perfect advice and makes people feel like they aren't alone or "wrong" for chosing certain things. Keep up the good work Ally 😊 your readers will be waiting for the next one!